Signs That You Are Infatuated By Someone
Love is such a complex feeling that what you might be feeling now might now be what you think it is. You may just be confused or you push yourself to believe that something is when it isn’t. We all have experienced it at some point in our lives and I did experience it, too. I thought that what I had with someone was love because the feeling was different, I felt really good when I’m with him and I always feel like I’m on cloud nine every time he smiles at me but I was wrong because it wasn’t love. It was some sort of admiration by how talented he is and how good he is at what he does. It wasn’t love because I never really looked at other sides of him, instead I focused on his good side. Because of this, I felt that it would be a really big help for people out there to know when they are infatuated by someone.
Everything about that person appeals to you.
We tend to forget that people are not perfect and they sometimes do mistakes. Mistakes are not meant to be repeated and tolerated but if you think you love this person, even their worst mistake can make you fall for them. You tolerate the bad things they do and you never make an effort to correct it in any way that can help them. You think that they are perfect and whatever they do, it’s okay for you. If you think this is love, I’m sorry to tell you but it’s not. This kind of relationship, when continued will become toxic overtime and you will end up both hurting.
You always feel giddy when you see them.
When you feel giddy towards someone, it could be love but it could also be not. It depends really but when you have been together for quite a while and that’s the only feeling you feel when you see them, maybe you should evaluate if it’s love or not. You see, when you really love someone, seeing them would give you a feeling of contentment and security. Yes, there’s a little feeling of being giddy but most of the time, it only happens first week in the relationship. You may just be infatuated by that person or you admire them so much.
Your world revolves around them.
You don’t do other things for yourself like hobbies or hanging out with your friends, you always hang out with your pair and that’s not healthy. Each one of us has our own individual lives and we also need to go alone to see the world. Never make someone your world because it will be painful if it ends. This could also be a sign that you are not in love with them, rather you are in love with the fact that you have a partner and that’s totally different. Be sure to assess your feelings because what you know might not be right all along and you end up just wasting your time.
