Why Do We Need Closure
Closure is such an important word in every romance. I know that almost all relationships come to an end and to end things between you and your pair, you need a closure. I have closed a lot of doors for those people who were never really for me and I have been through a lot of closure which is why I think it is a necessity. Without closure, you can’t really say that things are truly over between you and your partner because there are still a lot of loose ends and those loose ends might form into new ones which could complicate your relationship. If you really wanted to end things, you need to have a formal break up and tie all those loose ends to make things clear that your relationship is over. Today, I will be listing some plausible reasons why closure is a necessity.
Closure makes it clear that the romance is over.
When I felt that my previous relationship wasn’t really going anywhere, I had to stop it at some point because I don’t want to waste my partner’s time when I don’t think our relationship would work so I broke up with them and closure comes at the end. I believe that breaking up is a good way to end the love that you had but in order for your partner to comprehend that you don’t want to be in a relationship with them, you need closure. This closes any feelings left for each other and in the relationship.
Closure helps you move on easily.
I always do closure because I really think that it helps a lot in making things settled. With closure also, I found out that my previous partners were able to move on easily from our relationship because I really made sure that I don’t feel anything for them anymore. This might sound harsh, but this is the only way for them to find someone who deserves their love and affection. If I had sugarcoated my words, they would think that our relationship might still have a chance when in reality, it doesn’t.
Closure blocks any feelings to continue.
As I mentioned earlier, I always believe that closure helps a lot in making things settled and this includes feelings. I often notice that when I break up with my pervious partners, they would still message me and check up on me like we are still a couple and I really wanted to avoid that because I want both of us to move on. From then on, I decided to have a closure after every break up I had. This made things clear and also it avoids my previous partners from having any feelings left for me.
Closure lets you not waste your time.
When you do closure, I really think that it saves both of your time. In every break up, there will always be one person who will not agree with it because they still love you. But I think that when breaking up, both parties should agree with it. With closure, you are making sure that you do not waste any time with the person you don’t really love, it helps you find the person who deserves your love and will reciprocate it the way you like. I found this article which might help you. You can read it here.
https://electronichealthreporter.com/technologies-of-future-effect-on-relationships-and-healthcare/
