Things We Can Do To Our Partner If We Are Angry At Them

When you are romantically involved with a person. You shouldn’t expect that you will always be happy because there will be times where life would give you a lot of problems and this will either make or break your love for each other. If you pass through all those hardships, your love for each other will be much stronger than ever but if you don’t, it will show how weak your foundation is in your romance is. There would be times where we get angry at our pair because we are not perfect. We make mistakes and these mistakes can sometimes anger us. However, it is not good to be always angry at our pair since we might do things that are not good. Here are some of those things.

We might say things that are not good.

               If we are angry at our pair, we might say things that are not good. We could say bad things at them because of how angry we are at that moment. Whenever my pair and I would get into an argument, I sometimes say things that I wish I could take back because of how much it hurt my pair and how much it left a bad taste in her mouth. Sometimes my anger would be so much that I cannot control the things that I say and I forget about how people would feel if I told them those words.

We might do things that can hurt them.

               When you are angry at your pair, you might do things that can hurt them like becoming violent towards them. There are some people who become abusive when they get angry especially if they become intoxicated. There would be times where you will lay a hand on your pair and this will never be fine. Anger will never be an excuse as to why you laid a hand on our pair, you should’ve known how to control your emotions and you should know better than to hurt them physically.

We might ignore them and stay silent.

               When we are angry with our pair, we might ignore them and stay silent. Sometimes, if I am so angry at my pair, I would ignore him and whenever he tries to talk to me I would never respond because I am angry at him and at the same time, I wouldn’t want to say anything that I might regret later. I know staying silent will not do any good because you need to talk to each other in order to resolve the conflict.

We might not want to see them for how many days.

               Whenever you are angry at your pair, there will be times where you might not want to see them for how many days. I have seen my parents do this whenever they are in a big fight, my mom would always go somewhere far from my father just to cool her head off. She would sometimes go to my grandparents’ house and stay there for a couple of days. I just read this article which might interest you. You can read it here. https://www.fightful.com/mma/love-air-wrestling-and-relationships