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Reasons Why You Have An Intact Romance

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My partner says that when you attentively listen to the other person while she’s talking, you would then truly know the situation she’s in. You can clearly see her emotions and feelings while delivering the message that she wants you to understand. If you’re in a romance argument, most individuals are clouded with different doubts or confusions at that time and if you would talk rather than listening while she’s talking then, definitely both of you cannot come up with good and constructive solutions to your problems.

This time, I would share to you my partner’s views on why listening is necessary in dealing with romance problems. I hope you and your partner would be enlightened with this guide and I also hope that in the near future both of you would know the essence of attentive listening in your romance.

Here are the occurring reasons why we have an intact romance. I hope this would help you. Check this one!

  1. You’ll never be confused again.

                You should stop talking and listen attentively to your partner while she’s talking. I became accustomed to the salient things that I should do and not rather do. I changed because of him and I am definitely happy because changes are part of your improvements as an individual and as a lover.  Why listening is necessary to every romantic romance? In our early years, I never thought that l “attentive listening” is beneficial to our romance but as the time goes by, I can honestly say that this method is significant in dealing romance issues or arguments. According to the site, more and more couples are now having a lasting relationship because moer of them are mature and are contented with what they have.

  1. A peaceful relationship with your partner.

                To become a good listener, you should release all your judgments to your partner. Suspending one’s judgment and truly listening to the merits of what somebody is saying in an unbiased way is a profound and powerful way of putting one’s own emotions and reactions on hold and tuning in to the substance of any given conversation. I also didn’t know the reasons why but I am definitely glad that I have a partner like him. If you’re in a long-term romance, that’s the period where you can fully understand and relate to the things that I wrote on my blogs.

  1. You can practice being calm while on an argument.

                You should not be aggressive while speaking to your partner. Some of us have great difficulty containing our impulse to say something when the best, most loving and effective thing we can do is simply listen, draw the other person out with open-ended questions, help them explore their options and arrive at sound decisions.