How Not To Make Him Feel Alone

Guys wanted to feel special too. They may not be good at expressing their emotions but they do want to feel loved by their girlfriends. However, it could be difficult for girls to do things to their boyfriends since as I said, they are not good at revealing their true emotions. My boyfriend is actually very shy and he doesn’t do things to trouble me. He’s always careful not to hurt me and sometimes he thinks deeply but when I ask him, he just says he doesn’t want to burden me with it. Although he shares his problems to me but I really think that there’s still something that’s bothering him. So I did these things below to make him feel like he is not alone and he can share his problems to me.

Surprise them with gifts.

You may think that this might hurt their ego because you got them a gift but they don’t have a gift for you so reassure them that it’s okay. Gifts are not necessarily given only on special occasions, even without any reason, you can give gifts to someone. Also try to choose small gifts instead of the expensive ones as they may feel guilty about not getting you any gift in return. The gifts I normally give to my boyfriend are bracelets, shirts and caps, just the little things so he won’t feel overwhelmed. He actually is very thankful of my gifts and I can see him genuinely smiling why I hand him some small presents.

Cook for him.

They say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach so if you know how to cook, showcase it on your next date. Cook his favorite dish and see how he will react to it. This is a one hundred percent way to keep your man with you for a long time. Men actually want to taste food that is homemade, it feels nostalgic for them and kind of reminds them of their childhood days. Work on your cooking skills and learn how to cook his favorite dish. This will truly make him feel at home and he will really feel special because you learned how to cook his favorite food.

Give compliments to him.

I know, I know but hear me out on this. Compliments are usually given to girls but guys need it too. It’s like a validation that what they did was appreciated by you. Simply telling them that they look handsome on their shirt or their shoes look cool is enough for them to feel that you love them. I often compliment my boyfriend by saying that his hairstyle looks cool and I follow it up with the question ‘how did you style it?’ And he will elaborate on the procedure on how he did that hairstyle. I actually think that when I say nice things to him, it seems that his self-esteem increases.

These are just some things you can do to make your boyfriend feel special. You may have other ideas so also do that and see what happens. We all have different relationships but every person just wanted to feel loved by the person they cherish the most. Love is really precious which is why if you are dating someone who is a mature military person, here are some things you need to know about dating them.