Why Assuming Can Lead You To Pain

Love really is a great feeling, it makes us happy, it makes us hopeful for the unknown future and it makes us do things to make our pair happy. When we love a person, it makes us a better person because we learn how to compromise and how to prioritize our pair before us. But there are times where love would make us assume about certain things. There are times when we like a person, we assume that they like us back because of their actions. We read into their actions so much and we put meaning to everything they do for us. Because of this, it hurts us if our assumptions are not met. That person might not like you back and they might just be oblivious of your feelings so if you assume, you will only be hurt in the end. Here are other reasons why you shouldn’t assume that a person likes you.

They might only be acting nice to us.

We shouldn’t assume that a person likes us because they might only be acting nice to us. They might just be a friendly person that’s why they do those things to you. You shouldn’t assume just because they are so helpful and kind towards you, You should see first if they are doing the same things to others before you conclude to yourself that they like you. Special acts are only done to a person they like so if they do it to others too then you are not special for them. Love goes all the way back int he past which is why the human race is still striving. Here are some secret love life of historical figures.

They might only see us as a friend.

There are some people who are so kind to you because they see you as a fried. They are concerned about your well-being and they are always there for you because that is what a friend does. They might be even protective of you not because they like you but because they are just trying to keep their dearest friend safe. They don’t want anything to happen to you and if you assume that they like you, you will end up hurting.

We would get hurt to know that they don’t like us.

Assuming a person likes you back doesn’t really end up well most of the times. If you did assume that they have feelings for you just because of their actions then you might get hurt if you know that they don’t like you. You will just be miserable because you have painted a picture in your mind that they like you and it didn't really happen.

What we have might get destroyed if we assume things.

Assuming will never be fine and there are times that when you assume that they like you back, it will destroy the things you have for each other. If you are friends for a long time and you assumed that they like you because they have been acting differently than before, your friendship might suffer and you won’t be able to do anything to take it back. If you are with the person you like, watching horror movies might be good for your relationship.